Friday, September 29, 2006

Happy Blog Birthday!

A year ago, this graffiti board was born. It started off as My Journey or something like that [honestly can't recall now!] until I Finally settled on Reflections. It started after I stumbled upon a blog by a glorier-than-thou lady – to be honest, the more I read, the less sure I am whether she really is what she claims to be or just a Wannabe; she writes good though, I’ll grant her that. And Abah has been suggesting and encouraging me to write about the places I’ve been to [he’s a good Malay writer but sadly none of us inherit his literary skills – I can't write to save my life and even had to enlist his help to help me with my BM essay back in form 5! Aye, fie on me *hangs head in shame*]. So I decided to start this blog, in an attempt to string words together and etch it on this graffiti online canvas, not only to record my trips to places, faraway or near, but also to record this confused and confusing brat’s personal journeys through life. Although my life Sure isn’t a Bed Of Roses!

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I'm normally one of those who takes a while to adjust to fasting [my one-day fast 10 days before Ramadhan apparently wasn't enough!]. So give me another week or two before I warm up. All the Ramadhan Bazaars and stalls and arcades would have to wait ‘til then [not that I'm much of a buyer, more a browser!]. Besides these places normally do business in cash. [And I Sometimes live on credit. Err, don’t most of us?]

I’ve been feeling a bit under the weather for the past few days but nothing that can entitle me to MC, sad!. Been nursing an uncomfortable throat followed by a dry, tickly cough, a body that feels feverish at times [usually when I’m about to leave for work!] and now an occasional running nose. I’d like to think they are my Ramadhan tests. [Speaking of which, last Ramadhan, I woke up one morning to find markings of what I suspected was an insect bite on my left cheek. It later progressed to be a horrible-looking painful pimple which lasted for so long and left a mark on my already imperfect face. And I was subjected to teasings from my colleagues all that time. Oh oh oh.] So, be kind to me please.

Last night, I was coughing so badly in between my Quran reading that my tummy hurt. Or was it my ribcage? I don’t know; I know that I was doubling back in pain and suffocating, trying to gulp in air and clear my throat. I try to finish reading the Quran each Ramadhan and this year must/should not be different, dry tickly irritating cough or not. After all, Ramadhan comes only once a year.

TV time has been drastically reduced; can’t recall the last time I watch news. I still make time to watch My Girl though, the Korea drama fanatic that I am. So it’s break fast time in front of the idiot box until 7.30 pm; Quran reading sandwiched between Maghrib and Isya’ prayers; My Girl comes next; and Tarawikh prayers performed after all that.

I have managed to find a site that gives an episode guide to My Girl. Ah, clever me. *Clap clap clap* Thank You Sheryl.

It doesn’t help any that I have to do this presentation to GruffGaffer and a few other BigBosses next Friday. It’s actually originally scheduled for today. God, help me. I’d earlier planned to punctuate each slide with a cough to deflect/discourage questions. Or better still, end each sentence with a cough. Or perhaps alternate each slide with a cough and a sneeze. But maybe and hopefully my cough/cold/feverish state would have returned to normal by next week. Hmmm, what would you do? [Time to ask for audience participation].

Aye, starting to feel sorry for myself… you should too.

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My mate and I recently exchanged these messages:

He: G has offered to arrange for break fast/iftar get together some time next week. Can tell her your preference, if any.

Me: I can’t go next week.

He: Why?

Me: I’ve got a date.

He: WOW.
[a minute later. I know he couldn't resist asking!]
He: Who with?

Me: Mr. Lee.

He: L**?

Me: Huh! He's HISTORY. And he's not the only guy with the surname Lee!

Lee Dong Wook.

He: Funny name he has :-)

Me: Well, he’s Korean.

He: Oh, your boyfriend whom you showed me yesterday?

Me: Yessssir.

Heh. Gotcha didn’t I? Well, at least I got him. Sheesh, some people can be so gullible.

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Happy Blog Birthday Reflections. Here’s to more confused and confusing raves and rants and serious, thoughtful Reflections of course!

Monday, September 25, 2006

Shoes Story

So I thought I’d google and find prayers to recite that can help fend myself and micasa off evil people. And instead I found these prayers. I tell ya, my eyes nearly popped out of their sockets!!!

Anyway, seeing it’s Ramadhan, let’s speak no evil, hear no evil and see no evil. So let me talk about a topic close to my heart [and appropriately featured in this month’s National Geographic magazine too!]: So, let’s talk about shoes [no, sorry, not food!].



To the tune of 'I'm Too Sexy', I'm too sexy for this pair...


I have more than a dozen pairs of footwear. OK, OK, I confess, it’s actually waayyy more than that. I’ve stopped counting. I’m Sure they are less than 30 pairs [and no, I’m not going to start counting!]. Anyway, numbers are not significant. Err, although not so to Abah who once discovered my shoes collection and questioned who they belonged to. Who indeed! Of the three girls in the family, my feet are the largest. No, it isn’t fair that Mummy and Akak have smaller feet than mine [in fact they could probably swap and borrow each other’s shoes]. Anyway, I have since resorted to storing my shoes in The Office to address storage problems [and inquisitions]. Heh.

Back to my collection of shoes. Mules. Wedges. Sandals. High heels. Sling backs. All of varying heights. No stilettos for me though ‘cause I don’t feel stable walking and strutting in them. And I still haven't yet developed that fondness for kitten heels. Maybe Someday perhaps? Sometimes I wish my feet length can be adjusted – especially when I can’t fit into a pair of gorgeous but smaller-size footwear. And as large as my feet are, I suspect they are of average size here ‘cause that’s the size that would normally run out first! And the odd sizes that are still left are either too small or too big. Come on shoes producers, I don’t think anyone of our generation wear size three footwear anymore so why manufacture them? I only know an aunt who fit that impossibly dainty size and her taste in footwear couldn’t be more different than mine.

I know where the warehouse that stocks Clarks shoes in England is [and also the Bally factory store which is in another part of England]. That's how Crazy, err, well-informed I am. An old mate of mine once bagged a good pair of Clarks boots for only five quids. Five quids! Enough to make me want to go rushing to the warehouse. And being in England meant having to change footwear quite regularly. It’s boots for winter and as the seasons change, so do footwear as they make way for spring and summer sandals. [Well I still buy a few here even where the season doesn’t change!].

I can never have too many shoes. They are an investment. They last. They make me feel good when I step out and give me self-confidence as I put my best foot forward. If they are uncomfortable, they give me pain; by contrast if they are comfortable, they give me much pleasure. In fact, more often than not, my choice of footwear would depend on my mood. They lend me height, bolster my confidence and make me feel pretty, draw attention from me and Sometimes give a good topic for conversation and discussion. If I recall correctly, one of the earlier Bruno Magli advertisements went something like this: Every girl should be shod like a princess.

Face it, since we were born, we have been shod with footwear from booties to boots, from flip flops to sneakers, from lace-up espadrilles to platforms. Aye, we spend most of our waking walking lives in shoes. And from them, we may learn something about our culture, our history and ourselves. For instance, I notice enough from my Korean drama viewings that Koreans normally wear house slippers indoors [probably 'cause it's too cold to walk barefooted]. And according to the National Geographic article, ‘You can chart the rise and fall of prosperity from the elevation of a heel; hear the distant rumblings of war in the configuration of a toe; measure social change by the thickness of a sole.

Every shoe tells a story. Shoes speak of status, gender (usually), ethnicity, religion, profession, and politics (the Russian writer Maxim Gorky said a strong pair of boots "will be of greater service for the ultimate triumph of socialism than ... black eyes"). Last, far from least, they can be drop-dead gorgeous.’

I wear basic footwear to work – taking the public transportation necessitates a comfy pair – before changing them at work. And for weekends, comfy shoes are also a must. I’m Sure you know what I mean: there are shoes for every occasion. Shoes for formal dinners; shoes for Shopping trips; comfortable and practical shoes for traipsing all over when you’re backpacking; flip flops for the beach, sun and surf; formal shoes for The Office and/or interviews; shoes when you visit relatives, attend events, meet up with old friends, socialise; shoes when you go flying, hiking, trekking, treasure hunting…

According to the National Geographic article also, shoes are not merely a necessity to protect our feet from the urban grind of city asphalt. ‘Should we be silent and not speak, our raiment … would (betray) what life we lead,' according to Shakespeare. And so it is with shoes. Shoes are our armour. They don’t just symbolise the weakness of vanity but also the easily wounded nature of our souls. How many of such pairs have I bought while nursing depression? And they are there for me to help me Escape my depression [can’t say the same for guys really; in fact shoes may be even more effective company than guys at times]. And anyway, why shouldn’t we dress up our feet? Surely they need all the attention after all the walking they’ve done for us!

If you’re a guy, you probably won’t begin to comprehend the importance and significance of shoes to us girls. Nahhh, you likely wouldn’t. Mummy and I had to buy a pair of sandals for Abah once. He would insist he doesn’t need another pair. But just Put Yourself In My Place, I mean, put yourself in my shoes for a while OK [pun intended].

OK maybe I have a fetish for shoes. I do have a weakness for them. I’m only normal. I’m only a girl. If I start losing interest in shoes, I worry about my mental state. And I can assure you that that is more worrying than what I spend on shoes.

Wow, this is a pretty long entry! I really should have done an MBA in fashion at Milan and write a thesis on shoes or clothes or handbags. I can’t promise if I will talk about my other ‘passions’ – for clothes, handbags, toiletries and lipsticks. Anyway, it’s time for a short nap!

Friday, September 22, 2006

Quizzical Quizzes

You Have a Choleric Temperament


You are a person of great enthusiasm - easily excited by many things. Unsatisfied by the ordinary, you are reaching for an epic, extraordinary life. You want the best. The best life. The best love. The best reputation.

You possess a sharp and keen intellect. Your mind is your primary weapon. Strong willed, nothing can keep you down. Your energy can break down any wall. You're an instantly passionate person - and this passion gives you an intoxicating power over others.

At your worst, you are a narcissist. Full of yourself and even proud of your faults. Stubborn and opinionated, you know what you think is right. End of discussion. A bit of a misanthrope, you often see others as weak, ignorant, and inferior.


Righhhttt. Indeed. Truth or pooh? Fact or fiction? Believable or bollocks?

Considering other quizzes suggested I'm supposed to have been born in February [huh?!] instead of in the month of Julius Caesar and that I'm apparently only 49% Cancerian [double huh], the outcome of the above quiz is definitely questionable. Except for the positive, glowing descriptions in the first two paragraphs of course. And as per the second last sentence of the third paragraph, that, ladies and gentlemen, is the end of this discussion. 'Nuff said.

Besides, according to another quiz, I'm a little scary. No, I don't know what 'a little scary' means. But just to be safe, it'd be wise not to ruffle my feathers.

You Are a Little Scary


You've got a nice edge to you. Use it.

I thought the kitty looks cute. Not at all scary.

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I'm now feeling a little uncomfortable now that someone else in The Office knows my blog. I prefer to be an anonymous blogger and don't want to be self-conscious of what I ramble. This is where I document the trips I've had the opportunity to go on and also record my journeys through life. Hence, this is where I express my experiences, excitement, exhilaration and also boredom, frustration, anger, anguish, anxiety, angst, emotional yo-yo, confusion...

Granted, this blog is hardly an exciting read as I lead a pretty normal existence and my career life is monotonous... But still blogging gives me relief. Therapeutic at times. It's my form of escapism. I don't share my profile and I don't care to be linked. And as vain as I am, I hardly leave comments on other people's blogs to promote mine. I'd like to think it's my secret waiting to be discovered. Those who have somehow found or stumbled upon this blog are free to leave their comments 'cause despite wanting to be another anonymous blogger, what I rave and rant on is still in a public medium.

Like I said, I just want to be anonymous and don't want to be self-conscious with what I write.

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Wishing everyone a blessed Ramadhan and a good weekend ahead.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

Fanatic?

In case you don't already know it, I get easily into the characters of Whatever novel I happen to be reading and movie I happen to be watching. Likewise for Korean dramas [but of course]. I can just feel what the heroine is going through - especially when her role seems to be close to home. And most of the time, it seems the heroines are playing out my life - 'cause honey, Korean dramas are normally romantic comedies - the search for Mr Right [mind you, not Mr Perfect! 'Cause I'm hardly perfect myself. But then guys look for Miss Perfect don't they?!] and their seemingly hopeless situations, the hurt, the pain, the anguish before ultimately love conquers all [as cheesy as it sounds, don't we all love good endings? Except that mine is still a never-ending classic tale of a Failure To Launch]. Am I a softie then?

And I cry along too. [OK, I cry watching some Disney movies too]. So sue me for being emotional. All the same, it's still embarassing to emerge from the theatre with a tear-streaked face when you're on a date. I even remember crying after reading a Harold Robbins novel. That's how involved I am in the character(s).

And I scream and cover my eyes when watching horror and/or thriller movies. I don't know why I still go watch movies that will set my heart racing at 160 km/h. I once hid behind the door when watching The Omen with Lin. Yeah, I'm cowardly custard that way.

I cannot understand how people can remain emotionless when watching a movie or drama. I just can't. I suppose they similarly don't understand how people like me get all involved and engrossed in the movies/dramas we watch.

If there's a particular drama or hero I like, I'll google to find out more. I even try to find episode guides. But surely you already know that. Does that make me a fanatic? [and especially a Korean drama fanatic at that?]

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So here's the latest My Girl update: YR's father left her to find a job [he's a sort of a loser when it comes to getting jobs and holding on to one and wastes his money away on gambling and drinking] and she rushed to find him. But she didn't manage to. Our hero came to apologise for thinking the worst of her [she had to pawn some jewellery as peace offering to some thug to get her dad out of jail; he thought she sold them off for self gain] and comforted her.

She got drunk that night and GC rushed to fetch her. On the way, she threw up - on his coat, no less! Her friend happened to pass by and met GC for the first time. He then showed GC the way to his sister's place where YR hang out after leaving GC's mansion. On the way, YR's friend told GC about YR's comments on him that went like this:

YR's friend: But I think your personality is very different from what Yoo Rin described you as.

GC: Personality... what did she say about me?

(*flashback of YR*) 'YR: To sum him up in one phrase: He's a HORRIBLE person.'

YR's friend: You even have a handsome face!

GC: My face...?

(*flashback of YR*) 'YR: He looks like a gangster!'


YR's friend: As a joke, I told her that she should take her chance and seduce you.

(*flashback of YR*) 'YR: Are you nuts?!'

Upon hearing YR's comments about him, he purposely swung the car from left to right, jerking and jolting our drunk heroine in the back so much so she bumped herself against the car. He then insisted on spending the night in the hairdressing salon downstairs. Yes, in the uncomfortable chair. And this is how YR's friend found him the next morning.


The next morning, after GC asked his secretary to bring over a change of clothes, they had the following conversation.

YR: I... What happened to me yesterday? I climbed up and picked the star, but I can't tell if it was a dream or if it was real...

GC: You seriously don't remember? Yesterday, because of you, I... Then why did you drink so much? You go from food indulgence to alcohol indulgence?

YR: But did I ever ask for you to come pick me up? And also, do you really want to bother Secretary Yoon at this time of the day to bring you clothes? Such a baby...


GC: Clothes... WHY do you think I ask her to bring me clothes? What, you don't remember? Here, smell it!

YR: Oh the stench... Seol Gong Chan, did you throw up?

GC: Who? ME? Fine. I understand why you wanted to get drunk, and you're insisting you can't remember a thing... We'll just say it was me who did it. We'll just say... Pretend, I guess.

YR: But uhm... Yesterday, did I slam against something? My body is aching all over.

GR: [silent]

As the day progressed, GC developed a fever and cold as a result of sleeping in the cold salon. later that evening, YR thoughtfully made him some drink.

YR: Have some tea!

GC: What, you don't even know how to knock?

YR: I did knock.

GC: When somebody knocks, they ... (*did some knocking on his table*) and then waits until the person in the room tells them to come in.

YR: Yeah, well you come in with ease even when you're told NOT to come in...

(*YR reluctantly walked back to the door & did what he asked her to*)


GC: Come in. What are you doing here?

YR: Drink this. I drank it when I was in Japan, it's 'egg alcohol'.. it's really good for when you have a cold.

GC: It's very effective.

YR: Well, seems like from yesterday you caught a cold because of me when you were sleeping at a cold place and since you are too scared to get shots so...Trust me, it's very effective... Drink up!

GC: To tell me to trust you is telling me not to drink it... (drank anyway)


YR: Geesh, it's just a saying. How is it? Not too bad, eh? If it works well, the next time you get a cold I'll... Never mind. There shouldn't be a next time for a cold... Well then.. Keep working.

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OK, so maybe I am a Korean drama fanatic. Hardly a crime, eh.

I'm going to miss tomorrow night's episode because of the event I mentioned previously. Dang!

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Things That Make Me Go ...

... Shudder...

My little nephew for whom I have a soft spot for rang me up last night as I was about to sit down for my TV dinner. He excitedly informed me that he aced his Maths and English tests and reminded me of the present I promised to get him if he scored. He asked me at least twice what I was going to get him and I told him I hadn’t bought any ‘cause I just found out he did well, well, only seconds earlier. But I will get him something ‘cause I did make that promise when I tutored him a couple of weekends ago and got exasperated with his playful attitude. And also ‘cause I don’t want him to grow up thinking that girls make promises which they conveniently forget subsequently [which I may have been guilty of to someone but that is not privy to this blog].

I shudder to think what I would need to get him and his sisters for all those other tests and major exams coming up in their schooling life: UPSR, PMR, SPM... The cutie pie’s only in kindergarten now!

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... 'Oh s***!'

I am now contemplating getting an alarm fitted so that I no longer need to worry about my safety while being in micasa. That’d mean forking out dosh of course and I’m a little tight now ‘cause my allowance claim for my India trip has yet to be cleared but I had to pay my Larger Than Life credit card bill shortly after my return ‘cause I didn't want to bear any interest and I didn’t want to bust my credit card limit. Although I’m sure my credit card provider is all too happy with me now; you’re a good customer if you charge lots of expenses to your credit card as that presents opportunity for the provider to earn from your interests should you not be able to clear your statement but only pay the minimal amount due. Thus far, I’m not a good customer ‘cause I pay my statements before their due dates and I clear them all.

And I found to my horror and dismay [and disgust] Yesterday evening that I may need to fork out more money to fix my toilet. Yup, literally flushing down money down the drain (or rather the toilet bowl). And no, you don’t want to know the full details.

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... ahhh and ohhh and hmmm...

But I’ll give you details on My Girl [I derive pleasure in getting into long and diatribe details in my Korean dramas update]. In the Monday night episode, Yoo-rin [YR] had a fall when she tried to help divert fans from Gong-chan [GC]'s now-again g/f [who is an international tennis player]. Our Royal Highness [as she referred him] hero then came to help clean her wounds.



This is the look of his face deep in concentration as he cleaned the wounds. [Everyone, go ahhh...].



Then he touched her head ever so gently. Ooohhh...



Ahhh, all the Things That Make You Go Hmmm surely...!

In last night’s episode, she accidentally blurted to GC to stop treating her nicely as she may fall in love with him. Realising her mistake, she quickly tried to correct it by saying what she meant was for him to stop treating her nicely as a litle cousin as she may find it hard to leave the family later. She then started avoiding GC leaving GC at first puzzling over her attitude then feeling awkward whenever they accidentally meet.



After thinking about it further, she decided she must stop the charade, i.e. stop pretending to be the long lost granddaughter as the grandpa was getting better and leave the mansion altogether. And exit from GC’s life. So off she went to the hotel [our hero owns the hotel] to tell GC.

In the hotel lift, she overheard a conversation that the other lift occupant was plotting to blow up the hotel. She rushed to alert GC and his secretary and together they went to investigate. In her excitement, she fantasised GC and herself as the lead in the X-Files, Leon [a fictional professional assassin] and then James Bond 007. Hilarious! There was even a fantasised moment of the two of them rushing into a Gangsta's Paradise hotel room and they overpowered the gangsters [and this fantasised moment scene was capped with another of Wookie’s cute wink].



Turned out the suspect was actually a writer and was talking about his yet unfinished novel... duh! Anyway, later that evening, she Finally told him that she was leaving.

Kleenex moments coming up...!

Monday, September 18, 2006

The Weekend Senza Una Uomo

Having led a nomadic existence especially during the past few weekends, I decided to stay at My Own Private Idaho during the weekend. The usual inevitable house cleaning was done on Saturday morning followed by a reward of the flick You, Me And Dupree and some retail therapy.

Sunday Morning was spent pulling out weeds *ugh* before tackling the dreaded ironing chore. A noon perambulate to Bangsar Shopping Centre then ensued for another well-deserved retail therapy session. Spent considerable time trying tubes and tubes of lipstick so much so my lips got all swollen like they were stung before Finally settling on two tubes; it started out as fun before I got addled as to the shades that would suit me. After that, I had a fun time trying on clothes and a not-at-all fun time parting with more dosh on some tops before heading home. Dark clouds were gathering and rain seemed imminent and a Sure thing, but it was still a pleasant stroll back because it was windy and not too sunny, and anyway I was armed my shades and brolly to protect me from UV.

I was also practising my singing for the event later this week and was karaoke-ing during the weekend – mixed sessions of crooning to oldies and then singing to Backstreet Boys [I’m a closet teenybopper still stuck in my teenage phase. Oh, and I sing Britney Spears too Sometimes! But shhh...!] and Paul Young. I do wonder what my neighbours heard on their sides of the wall and hope the walls are thick enough to insulate their ears from any pain.

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My Girl update for Friday night episode: Gong-chan brought Yoo-rin to a temple to pay respect and offer prayers to his late aunt. They then went in search for a meal but somehow Lost their way. Stranded in a jungle with a car running out of fuel and no mobile coverage to get help, they stumbled upon a village. They attended the village head’s birthday party [what a coincidence eh!], got fed and offered a free place to crash for the night. Gong-chan was sleeping when he was awakened by the hostess who told her Yoo-rin had a bad case of indigestion. The host suggested taking her to an acupuncturist and insisted he carry her on his back a la piggy back ride. It was a hilarious sight seeing them race through the forest with Gong-chan struggling under Yoo-rin’s weight.

Unfortunately, the next day Gong-chan learnt that his ex-g/f had an accident and rushed to visit her. And they made up. Well, for the moment that is.


This is the car scene when they made up. He is looking at Yoo-rin in the side mirror trying to chase the vehicle ’cause she left her handbag in the car. Isn’t he simply cute?!


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The lady neighbour – we hardly ever exchange hellos [‘cause we hardly ever meet, sad, eh? But let’s keep it that way ‘cause I’m not too hot with Nosy Parkers] – called me over and said that apparently there were some lowlife trying to break into my backyard late Saturday Night or rather very early Sunday Morning. I was shocked when I first heard it then a little scared but the more I thought of it, the angrier I got. Angry that there are people who think they can just break into other people’s houses and steal our possessions. We work hard for our money and they think they can just come in and take away what we work hard for? How dare they? How dare they terrorise us such that we fear for our lives, that we have to lock ourselves in and lead an existence not unlike caged chickens just to keep them out? How dare they misuse their strength to intimidate their victims? And the perpetrators are all men. Yes, men. Uomo. The species who are supposed to protect the weaker among the society, who are supposed to ensure law and order are upheld, etc. And to think we, the weaker sex, have to take up self-defence classes to fend ourselves against these criminals.

What I find strange is that the lonely uninhabited house two doors away has been broken in a few times while micasa was left undisturbed for the few years when it was uninhabited - but with still some possessions nevertheless - but now that it is occupied, someone tried to break in. I'm not complaining that my place had not been burgled into, just pondering out aloud here.

OK, I’m not naïve. These things happen but things must have gone so bad that people have to resort to breaking into other people’s houses to steal. Where did we go wrong then that there are people still unemployed or poor enough that they have to resort to this? Whatever happened to all those zakat and taxes we paid?

This morning, on my way to work, I saw a rumpled black tote with the words ‘Australia’ emblazoned across it. No doubt flung by snatch thieves after having gone through the victim’s bag for money and possessions. Reminded me of what I went through before. Yes, been there, experienced that. And I was briefly left traumatised by those experiences.

Now I’m at work but am still worried that someone may attempt a break-in while I’m in The Office. It wouldn’t be pleasant coming back to a messed up and thoroughly searched pad but I reckon that’s better than being held at knife point or sth. But I shall leave my affairs to God ‘cause I know He will protect me.

All the same, I practised some kung-fu kicks last night, well, just in case.


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Arsenal, without their star striker Thierry Henry, beat ManU(re) 1-0 - at Old Trafford no less - for their first win of the season [and ManU(re)’s first defeat!], thanks to Adebayor who flicked a pass from Fabregas past Kuszczak who made his debut to replace van de Sar. YEESSSSS!!! Pictures courtesy of BBC.

Friday, September 15, 2006

Laughter is the Best Medicine

Now, it is encouraged to break your fast with dates [and by that I mean dates the dried fruit, not the dishy chap sitting across you in his casual yet metrosexual outfit!] but I want to save that precious single box of dates for Ramadhan (and no, doubt there are enough to last me the whole month) so I broke fast Yesterday on the next best alternative available: Hershey's Special Dark Chocolates with Almonds Nuggets and Daim sweets AND a pack of the King of Fruits. Ahhh, bliss. Yum yum yummy! Syukur for what I have.



Mental note: stock up on dates!!!




And maybe I'm just plain Lucky or blessed with rezeki or looked hungry [and perhaps underfed] that the Café folks offered me a BOGOF [buy one get one free dish deal] when I popped in there Yesterday afternoon in search of some sweet potential break fast treat. Syukur.


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My Girl episodes are real hilarious of late: in the Wednesday evening episode, Lee Dong Wook's [hereafter to be referred to as LDW or affectionately as Wookie - thanks to trivia I found on www] character, Seol Gong-chan, cried real actual tears [no, I don't think they were onion tears!], complete with face contorted in pain and misery, when he thought his grandpa had died shortly after meeting his 'granddaughter' [who is none other than our heroine who Finally agreed to pose as the long-lost granddaughter, at the request of Gong-chan]. Then Yoo-rin hesistantly said sth like, 'Err excuse me Director, but if he is dead, the monitor will go *did a blinking sound*', and Gong-chan looked up to see that his grandpa was indeed not dead but had fallen asleep. The next scene showed Gong-chan sitting down pointedly avoiding making eye-contact with Yoo-rin. I laughed so hard, tears were welling up in my eyes!

And in last night's episode, Yoo-rin landed on the floor after jumping up and down on the bed. He came in to investigate and peered over her, face very close to heres. Feeling uncomfortable with such intimacy and being uncomfortable being in such a position, lying down on the cold floor, she got up abruptly and in the process, knocked his chin so hard his head snapped up.



Then in another scene, she slipped and fell on the bathroom floor - and her bathtowel slipped off too - and our hero rushed pver to help, belatedly realising as his eyes adjusted to the dim bathroom environment that she was naked! He went out, debated what to do next, pulled the duvet off the bed, went to the bathroom door and assured her he was going to switch off the lights when he reentered, bundled her up in the duvet, flung her over his shoulder and hoisted her off to the hospital.



He waited for her at the hospital and she reemerged with a neck cast. She looked embarassed to see him and Finally on the way home, she asked if he saw anything. When he said yes, she got riled up and said he shouldn't admit to having seen her naked even though he had but should lie instead. When he said it's not natural for him to lie [unlike her], she got riled up again. When they arrived at his home, no, mansion, he said, not bad. She asked what he meant and he asked her whether she really didn't know what he was referring to. She stammered and he bent down as if to kiss her and she waited in nervous anticipation. But the kiss didn't come; instead he walked off and said over his shoulder that that was his way of lying.

I tell ya, I was laughing so hard my neighbours must have thought I was suffocating in laughing gas.

I can't wait for Tonight's episode. And til the next episode update [if any], I'll leave you with a wink.


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Today is pay-thy-bills day. Sheesh. Like a friend said, 'There are three things in life that are certain [no, not two, but three!]: death, taxes and expenses.'

No, Life Isn't All Ha Ha Hee Hee. Dang!

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Long Live The King

I Finally did what I've been setting aside for some time now: print the past twelve months' worth of photos of trips and events. That's what digital photography does to me; there's no real urgency to print them photos 'cause I can view them with my laptop. But I still like looking at them and flipping through albums - nothing beats the look and feel experience - so despite the digital technology, I still print them. And my laptop is so heavy I'm Sure I could develop hand muscles if I carry it around long and often enough [should I want to], so lugging it around just to show the photos I took to family and friends doesn't sound like much fun or appealing.

My procrastination translated into slightly more than 500 photos [and that was after deleting some blurry ones!] so you can just Imagine the damage to my wallet...

Dashed off to collect the photos after work Yesterday and brought just enough cash to buy a loaf of Gardenia Toast'em bread [at the nearby supermarket] and leave me with some change. I was planning to fast today and thought I deserve a good sahur. Gardenia Toast'em bread is the only bread I can stomach now; five years at boarding school made me really dislike bread. I thought my dislike for bread could be overcome by my (ahem!) laziness/almost nil knowledge/interest/enthusiasm to cook [this despite of, and probably largely due to, the domestic science subject I had to take in lower secondary] during my undergrad days in England, but no. Instead, I successfully managed to breed colonies of mould and fungi on my abandoned and half-forgotten loaves of bread. If I remembered in time and/or the ducks were Lucky, I'd feed them to the ducks, but even those swimming birds could be very choosy [or maybe we just shared the same dislike for bread]. I'm OK with buns but I dislike pastries 'cause they go all crumbly and flaky and half would end up on my clothes or on the floor/plate/wherever rather than in my mouth. Anyway, I digress.

As I entered the supermarket, the sight that greeted me was that of rows and rows of packed durian sitting prettily there, all fleshy and yellow and enticing. The price tags said RM10 for two packs of local durian and RM25 for the D24. I looked longingly at them and almost felt like kicking myself for not bringing more dosh. Walked all around looking for the bread aisle only to discover it was actually so very near the entrance! [The supermarket was recently renovated okay, I'm usually not that blurred when it comes to Shopping, even if it's just for groceries!].

I couldn't resist paying them durian packs one last visit just before going to the checkout counter. There they were still looking as if they were silently begging me to 'Buy me! Buy me! No, me! Look at me, all nice and juicy!'. And then this guy came along and told me they were having a sale [!! a durian sale!] and the durian was going for RM10 for five packs. Five packs. Five. Hamsah. Cinque. [It's like buy three free two, my oh my].



or

???

No guessing as to what ruled the day. Durian reigned supreme of course. No Gardenia Toast'em loaf of bread as planned but I brought five packs of durian back to micasa.

Yes, long live the King. The King of Fruits!

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

My Girl

I've been feeling blah for the past couple of months. And lately, my moodiness has given way to mood-lessness.

I don't know which is better, feeling and being moody or feeling mood-less.

Feeling/being moody means either I feel strongly about something and that something is bothering me or my Emotions are doing yo-yo [Sometimes PMS is the culprit] and playing havoc with my thoughts and feelings in turn.

Feeling mood-less means I just can't be or feel bothered or excited or enthusiastic about work anymore. I feel indifferent. Numb. Couldn't care less. Can't be bothered. In short, mood-less.

Maybe 'cause I really don't care anymore.

But is this good? Somehow, I don't think so. I'd rather be caring or passionate about something. And yes, I'd rather be emotional too than being indifferent. Being indifferent feels like I'm devoid of feeling.

Golly, now I sound like I'm emotional for being mood-less!

I need a break, I do. The thing is, I just got back from an official trip so going off again shortly after my return wouldn't look too good.

No matter how badly or desperately I need it.

And besides, a trip would require dosh. Heck, even going for retail therapy requires money, what more a trip! [And especially after Yesterday's purchase - and no, I shall not elaborate about that here!]

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Besides finding relief in reading my book, reciting the Quran and performing prayers, my celluloid pick-me-up is (yet another) Korean drama. Yes, this sucker for Korean dramas is now glued to My Girl.



It stars the very dishy and gorgeous Lee Dong Wook and the pretty Lee Da Hae. For synopsis, check this out.




Here are some pictures of Lee Dong Wook which I've shamelessly nicked from the wonderful world wide web. For more pictures, go here. Now, don't you agree that he's suchhh a dreamboat?


Friday, September 08, 2006

Let's Hear It For The Boy

Seeing this is my 100th blog posting, I've decided to spice it up a bit by sharing with you those dishy, hunky, gorgeous boys that I have set my eyes on [I still refer to myself as a girl and them guys as boys] and putting up pictures of some of them. And my kind of man? My taste in them male species varies; I used to fancy dark-skinned blokes - think of Shah Rukh Khan kind of complexion [is he dark anyway?] - during my A-Level days. Then when I was in England, of course I liked Caucasians [and still do!]. English, Irish, Scottish, Welsh...

I've Always had a soft spot for Irish people in general, after spending some time there during term breaks, and particularly after an Irishman talked to me on my turbulent ferry trip back across the Irish Sea back to the UK. It was a turbulent ride alright and I vomited twice in view of fellow passengers, how not cool eh! But I struggled up anyway and cleaned up. So I was really surprised when this chap approached me and chatted with me. Before we parted, he gave me a scribbled piece of paper with his address on it and told me to look him up when I next visit Ireland. Then he asked, 'You know U2?' and I nodded yes - somewhat in a daze - and he continued, 'I work for them. I'm a photographer.' Meow! I don't know why but I never contacted him on my subsequent visits...

Ah yes, those Irish. Think of Pierce Brosnan, bad boy Colin Farell and Jonathan Rhys Meyers...





Ever since my not-so-rosy experience in Paris with the snotty French, I don't much like them. Except for Monsieur Louis xxx whom I met in Bangalore, India [of all places!], last week.

I'm into Oriental looks too - golly some Korean and Chinese actors are quite cute! Meet Prince Charming Jo Hyun Jae [by the way, Only You was concluded last night with happy ending of course! Prince Charming wore mainly Pink shirts and ties in the drama. After all, real men do wear Pink. Cor...!]



Jo In Sung


and Lee Dong Gun


There's one Chinese actor who I particularly like. I don't know his name though. And as I've not watched Chinese dramas for some time, I haven't seen him for a while now. But I like the looks of the American-born Taiwanese singer, Alexander Wang Lee Hom [oh look, he's got a Pink shirt too!]

Oh of course, let's not forget Brad Pitt...!

Whoa, who, whoa, whoa
Let's hear it for the boy
Hear it for my man
Let's hear it for my baby

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Princess Kiko has delivered her first prince and the first son to be born into the imperial family since his father on Wednesday
. Yes, the first Japanese male heir since 1965. What a Lucky baby eh! The netire nation must be rejoicing.

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I've been eating and stuffing myself the past few days. It's like I've gone on an eating binge revenge to make up for the past stressful couple of months including last week. Not that Indian food is bad, it's just that I'm not into them. I can't recall the last time I had curry; even when I go back to HQ I'd protest when Mummy wants to make curry. So here's to the gain-thy-weight campaign!

Monday, September 04, 2006

Feast India


The study trip I was on was to India. Our plane took off on time. I managed to watch Over The Hedge [was probably the only one there watching that movie!] and a bit of Mission Impossible III. Gosh, Tom Cruise can still look quite good but the Irish agent, Jonathan Rhys Meyers, was oh so hot.

We landed at Mumbai Chhatrapati Shivaji International Airport about 4.5 hours later at slightly after 8 pm local time [India is GMT + 5:30]. Now it may be an international airport by name but definitely not by appearance. I felt like I was passing through an airport from the 1970s. Nevertheless, it is India’s busiest airport and the primary international gateway to the country; Mumbai is after all the largest city in India and capital of Maharashtra state. Representatives of our host were already waiting when I Finally cleared customs and I was whisked off to ITC Grand Maratha Sheraton Hotel, a mere few minutes away from the international airport.

The grandeur and splendour of the hotel that greeted me managed to lift some weariness off me. Check-in was a breeze and I got a room at a corridor designated specifically for single women travellers – how’s that for extra protection and thoughtfulness? And the room… splendid! It came complete with toiletries thoughtfully placed to impress even the most discerning guest and with a huge plasma TV to boot!

Sunday, 27 August 2006: I decided to venture out into the City of Dreams in the morning and contemplated on taking an auto rickshaw over a breakfast combination of Western and (I suppose) traditional Indian morning fare. As I was discussing my trip to the Travel Desk, a chap from the host company came over and suggested I take a normal cab instead as he was concerned I may get fleeced. Despite my assurances and protests that I would be perfectly fine [I also didn’t want to trouble anyone especially as the trip to the city was mainly personal and hardly business], he proceeded to make some phone calls. And as it so happened that another lady participant of Turkish origin also needed to go do some Shopping as her luggage got lost somewhere between Frankfurt and Mumbai, it was agreed that we go to the city together to do some sightseeing and Shopping.

The cabbie and Rizwan [the chap from the host company decided to come along] took us through the potholed streets of Mumbai (gosh, the streets were in pretty bad shape alright!) racing through the traffic with auto rickshaws, red non-air conditioned public buses and black-and-yellow private cabs [that looked like the ones plying KL streets in the 1970s]. We travelled from north Mumbai where our hotel was, passing marble mini factories, to the south central suburbs of Dadar – where there were dilapidated, barely liveable shacks and tents and ramshackle shanties lining the street [and people living in them!] – and Parel [where there were a few hotels and business centres] to Mahalaxmi train station, where there was a thriving laundry or dhobi business just on the other side of the railway tracks.

We then moved on, taking the JJ Bridge [if my memory serves my right, plus I didn’t quite understand some of what Rizwan said!] where we passed the Haj Committee building [which functioned akin to our local Pilgrim Fund; the Haj jemaah from India would stay there before flying off to the Holy Land out of Mumbai] to the Chattrapati Shivaji Terminus [formerly Victoria Terminus], a massive train station complex. We then cruised the streets [it was already downtown and the roads were considerably better] passing the Naval Dockyard, the Mint, the Reserve Bank of India building and the Asiatic Society, which is the State Central Library housing a vast collection of newspapers and documents. We were Lucky to witness a movie shooting taking place on the steps of the Asiatic Society, woohoo! Doubt Shah Rukh Khan was there though; we didn’t and couldn’t linger there so we continued on to the Gateway of India. This structure, built in 1911 to commemorate the visit of King George V and Queen Mary to India is the most recognised symbol of the city. The Taj Mahal hotel was very close by providing its guests with magnificent views of the Gateway and the Arabian Sea [and I betcha the room rates must be astronomical!].

After a few minutes of Kodak moments, we continued on, passing the Jehangir Art Gallery and a brief pitstop at the Chattrapati Shivaji Maharaj Vastu Sangrahalaya [what a mouthful eh, one’d probably choke just trying to pronounce the name!], formerly known as the Prince of Wales Museum of Western India.

We then cruised along the Marine Drive [where you get a magnificent view of the Malabar Hill across the Back Bay, passing the famed Chowpatty beach, before going up Malabar Hill. Malabar Hill houses the richest neighbourhoods in the whole of India and the rates there are among the highest in the world. Various embassies are also located here.

We drove on, passing the other side of Mahalaxmi, stopping briefly at the Race Course [photography forbidden here!] before continuing on to Worli and Finally having lunch at an eatery along Linking Road, Bandra. This is India, you must eat at proper establishments and drink only bottled water please.

I was surprised at how famished I was feeling as we waited for our meal to arrive [somehow didn’t really feel it before when soaking in the sights and sounds of Mumbai]. We then went Shopping, or rather browsing, along Linking Road street stalls and bazaar. I didn’t quite manage to find anything that caught my fancy and hence the damage to my wallet was limited. We then returned to the hotel as we had dinner that evening. Anyway, by this time, I’d had enough of Mumbai, particularly the blatant poverty as evidenced by the dilapidated shacks and shanties and tents; the occasional barefooted street child trying to earn a Rupee or two; the mother and daughter duo who knocked on our cab windows signalling they hadn’t had a meal since God only knows when; the dirt everywhere and people living, sleeping, walking barefoot and yet somehow seemingly oblivious to this; the squatters practically living on the streets as the shacks could not possibly occupy two persons let alone a family of five or more [yes, they were peeling vegetables, even having a bath in the streets!]; and what I found particularly and especially repugnant, repulsive and disgusting was the sight of men taking a leak by the roadside [and more of that in other cities as well as I later discovered to my dismay].

I shall not apologise if I sound appalled and disgusted with poverty in Mumbai. Because I really was appalled and disgusted. Disgusted that people were made to live in squalid, wretched conditions, like animals, by the roadside. [Even the street cat looked sad to me and I was sorry to see it too]. That these people were reduced to being panhandlers for their everyday subsistence. That this city should be called the City of Dreams [what dreams do these people have when all they have is sleepless nights wondering when the next meal would be?] and that the city boasts the highest land rates in the country and yet could not address the urban poor. And I was sad because I know it would take years, decades even if at all, to eradicate or alleviate this poverty problem. And mind you, I didn’t even see the Mumbai area of Dharavi which contains Asia’s largest slum. I remember thinking, if this is how it is in the big city, how is it like living in rural India? I’m not naïve nor ignorant and had braced myself for the worse but even then a first-hand experience and contact with the poverty and overwhelming destitution was still a surreal experience.

Dinner was an informal affair which started with finger foods. The waiters went around serving us so much so it got me wondering if that was all there was to dinner and that it was their interpretation of an informal dinner. Turned out there was substantial food served after all, after a presentation by our host. I am not a regular patron of Indian eateries and was picking at my dinner.

Monday, 28 August 2006. We checked out of the hotel early in the morning. I simply could not fault the hotel service and wonderful ambience save for the slow checkout. And we had a flight to catch too! Anyway, it was Finally done and we were taken to the domestic terminal to Mangalore.

As I have mentioned in my earlier posting, the search at the airport was severe. In fact, I think it bordered on paranoia. We had to have our cabin bags tagged, scanned, searched and then only after satisfying themselves that the hand luggage carried nothing in liquid form whatsoever would only the airport personnel verify our bag tags. I didn’t experience it when boarding the plane from KUL – in fact I double checked at the KLIA check-in counter that the rules were only applicable for flights out of the UK and for flights going into the USA – and so wasn’t happy when I had to part with my hand cream and face mist. It was only a domestic flight, within India, for God’s sake!

Our Jet Airways plane took off at 0945 and landed at Mangalore in the state of Karnataka at 1100. From my window seat, I could see the red earth alternating with green plantations below. Mangalore has a small tiny airport and we were then whisked off, sans our luggage which went directly to our hotel, to Dharmasthala, a town about 50 km away. The journey there took slightly over two hours though due to the bad roads which were narrow and red-caked at times. Surprisingly, there were actual, proper, standing brick houses along the way, not shacks or sheds or tents! It was a bumpy two-hour ride and I was beginning to get tired of being jostled here and there when we Finally reached the town, somewhere in rural India, shaken but not quite stirred.

We went to this guesthouse atop a hill operated by a trust, which also runs the local temple [which is pretty famous judging by the number of visitors from nearby towns]. It was a basic but comfortable looking guesthouse offering units of rooms and splendid views of the surrounding valleys. We were given a warm welcome – they really were very hospitable hosts – and after lunch, we were given a presentation of the programme being run by the trust before going to meet the president of the trust. Apparently he was some respected person and he was the one who initiated this programme to help the local poor. We then stopped at a local hospital on our way back to Mangalore to have an Up Close & Personal look at how the programme helps those who are hospitalised.

We endured another bumpy ride before reaching Mangalore and checking into Taj Manjarun Mangalore. After the luxurious Mumbai hotel stay, this hotel paled in comparison. But what it lacked in luxury was made up by the thoughtful performance put up by the Mangalorean hosts during dinner later that evening and also the wonderful and charming hotel shop where we discovered many beautiful souvenirs at very reasonable prices.

Now a bit on Mangalore: it’s a port city and gateway in the Karnataka state. Fishing is an important economic activity besides farming. Can’t say much else ‘cause we didn’t get a chance to wonder around!

We checked out the next day and made our way to the airport [which we got in the day before] at Bajpe, about 30 km from the city. Another winding and bumpy ride to the airport. Despite its size, we endured another round of intense check on our hand-carried bags.

Our noon flight out of Mangalore landed at Bangalore, the Silicone Valley of the East, in under an hour. We got served a simple breakfast despite the short duration. Interesting how they can manage to do that when all you get on a domestic flight to LGK aboard our national carrier is a drink!

Upon arrival at Bangalore [capital city of Karnataka state], we proceeded to Kolar, about 70 km away for another rural India experience. This time around, thankfully, the roads were considerably better. The journey still took about two hours as more vehicles plied the streets as is normally the case with better roads. From what I could see from my seat in the bus, Kolar has a sizeable Muslim population. We stopped at a local society for a brief presentation on the local programme and then went to visit two villages.

Another great Indian hospitality was had at the first village, it seemed the whole village had turned out in their best outfit to greet and welcome us. We were each given a flower garland, and err, a red dot rubbed on our foreheads. I wasn’t keen on having some red dot marking my forehead but told myself that it was their culture and custom and not religious [I hope I’m right on this thought!], and a welcome so grand it felt like a hero’s welcome home. I was feeling a tad embarrassed with the grand welcome for I didn’t feel worthy of such a welcome – I mean I’m hardly Angelina Jolie in Namibia! Nay, I’m no celebrity, just a foreign visitor trying to learn from them. Gosh, yes, it was simply humbling and amazing that there we were, from various countries, some from First World countries even, trying to learn a thing or two from these simple village folks.

We had a question-and-answer session with the villagers, trying to learn as much as we could from them. In turn, they were also curious as to the purpose of our visit.

We then hurried over to the next village [time was passing quickly] and this time, the villagers were predominantly Muslims and instead of working the land, they work in kilns. The Muslim villagers were probably wary of us and not many turned up to meet us. But from what little we could gather, it was evident that they welcomed such a programme. Anything to help them overcome their financial woes.

We didn’t stay long in the second village as we had to rush back to Bangalore. After enduring a horrible traffic jam in downtown Bangalore, we Finally reached Taj Gateway Hotel on Residency Road. Dinner was by the hotel poolside and there I met a French eye-candy. We turned in for an early night [if you consider 10.45 pm early!] as we had a very early morning flight to catch the next morning.

Wednesday, 30 August 2006. We were given a wake-up at an ungodly hour – 4 am! I think the phone must have rang for several minutes before the sound penetrated my foggy mind. Yup, our flight for Hyderabad was scheduled to depart at 0615 hours – and don’t forget we had to endure the horrible custom check again. We weren’t at all pleased to be billed USD180++ for a miserable 8.5-hour stay and we made this clearly known – and the rate was inclusive of breakfast which we never ate too – but the hotel staff was unyielding. If only we weren’t in a hurry to catch our flight. Daylight robbery is what I’d call it.

We landed at Hyderabad less than an hour after take-off and were brought to Taj Residency Hyderabad. Now Hyderabad, the capital of Andhra Pradesh state, is a predominantly Muslim city. We were given about two hours to Relax before our meeting started at 10 am. We were all feeling knackered but hey, the show must go on. The meeting continued until 5 pm.

A trip to Golconda Fort had been arranged and we left the hotel at 6 pm. Golconda Fort is probably 7 km away but there was heavy traffic along the way. I was getting sick and tired and feeling both homesick and a little bit under the weather by then, what with the Indian diet, the continuously bumpy coach rides and the incessant honking and so was really glad when we reached the area.

Golconda Fort stands atop an isolated hill and spreads over a radius of 3 km. Founded by the Kakatiyas in the 13th century, the existing structure was expanded by the Qutb Shahi kings into a massive fort of granite with walls and ramparts extending some 7 km in circumference. Now it lies deserted but in its heyday was the producer of the Kohinoor diamond and consequently the fortress city was famous for its diamond trade. The Hope Diamond and the Orloff Diamond of Catherine the Great are said to have originated from there too. The fort is famous for its built-in acoustic effects whereby handclaps at the entry gate could be heard at the top of the fort, some 69 metres high away.

We were there for a sound and light show [conducted in the evenings]. It was amazing – the structure was fantastic [I’ve always loved buildings and ruins] and quite well preserved, the show was enjoyable [and would be more if not for my full bladder!] and a feast to our eyes as much as our skin was a feast to the mosquitoes. The show lasted for about an hour.

We then made our way back to the city, stopping at Taj Krishna hotel for dinner. Now this hotel is opulent and tastefully decorated. Really a luxurious hotel. Back to the hotel at 11 pm; I was already half-asleep by then.

Thursday, 31 August 2006. Independence Day. Still feeling homesick and missing Mummy’s cooking. Plus living out of suitcases was getting to me. But the week was almost over, hurrah! Woke up after sleeping again after Suboh prayers and had a late breakfast. This morning, we had presentations by three different parties. Quite informative. We broke for lunch just after 1 pm. Catherine, the girl from South Africa, didn't join us the whole day - apparently she had a bad case of food poisoning; I suspected the cause was the sweets she bought from a roadside stall at Golconda. Oh dear.

Serap, the Washington-based Turkish lady, invited me to join her and Regina, a Brazilian lady, to go Shopping; Serap still hadn’t recovered her lost/missing luggage and desperately wanted to shop. I was sorely tempted but decided to join in a trip prepared to Salar Jung Museum instead. Score to Adek for resisting the Temptation to shop!

In the end, only four of us foreigners joined the trip, together with some reps from the host. I was glad I went there. Salar Jung Museum is located in Charminar and houses extensive and magnificent private collection of art objects of Nawab Salar Jung III such as exhibitions of European and Indian statuary. Words can’t even begin to describe these priceless, exquisite artefacts amassed from about 40 countries. I followed the troop wandering from one room to another – unfortunately, all visitors are allocated only half an hour in the museum, really unreasonable it seemed to me when there were 39 galleries in total – gazing around me in wonderment and amazement and delight. Oh by the way, no cameras are allowed here. It's difficult to believe all these pieces belonged to a single individual.

There is the musical clock from England where a toy wooden figure of man comes out three minutes early to every hour and strikes the corresponding hours on a gong and goes back inside, and there’s a blacksmith with a hammer who strikes the seconds away non-stop.


There is the ‘Veiled Rebecca’ statue from Italy, constructed from a single slab of marble, wearing clothes and sandals that aren’t quite there, now she was seriously anatomically perfectly carved.

There was the painting by Ed. Vander Haeghen [a Belgian] called ‘Stigma Diabolicum’; it’s a painting of an attempt to drive out evil spirits from a witch. The witch is stripped off and is lying down, restrained by some men, while a physician makes an incision at the side of her body. A few men from the church observe the procedure. You can clearly see the mark on the witch’s legs as she was being restrained and the terror on her face.

There are the three two-dimensional paintings of the Venetian Grand Canal, Piazza of San Marco and Venetian Grand Canal with Gondola by two Italian artists. You can see the paintings facing you if you stand at the extreme end on either side of the paintings. Amazing illusion. The paintings are also very detailed, depicting Venetian life once upon a time – even the marble statues atop a building are accurate and their shadows, together with other objects’ shadows, thoughtfully reflected as they bathe in the evening glow of the sun.

There is the wooden double statue. The side that faces you is that of the devil Mephistopheles while the other side of the figure reflected in the mirror placed strategically behind it is that of a good lady (Margaretta). This 19th century statue originates from France.

There are the Adrianne Rescued by Theseus and the Adrianne Abandoned by Theseus paintings.

There is the Glass Gallery, with an impressive collection of glass and crystal ware [Venetian, French, English, Bohemian, Istanbul, Belgium and Ireland]. I sighed looking at them all.

There is the Porcelain Gallery, with its magnificent collection of porcelain ware from England, Dresden and other parts of Europe. Another sigh escaped me.

We then proceeded to the adjacent Nizam’s Jewellery Gallery. A stricter requirement is imposed on all visitors here: no photography, carry bags, mobile phones allowed. Visitors are allocated a duration of visit limited to a similarly ridiculous half an hour. And a very thorough body search was conducted too, at least twice.

And you can see the reason why as you step in the gallery. Rows of rows of rows of magnificent jewellery in various shapes and sizes – rings, necklaces, anklets, custom decorations, head gear decorations, belts – sit in glass displays in all their splendour. Fantastic. Stupendous. Breathtaking. Amazing. Stunningly beautiful. I can go on and on and yet the words will not do them justice. It’s just amazing that all these jewellery were assembled in those days of yore where cutting edge technology was still unavailable. The diamonds cut to perfection, the gigantic pearls, the enormous emeralds from Colombia, the rich red rubies – they were all carefully selected from only the very best and it must have taken a thousand oysters to find similarly perfect gigantic luminous pearls, a thousand feet of mining to get that perfect green emeralds and red rubies... it’s mind-boggling really. I oohed and aahed at each display. Yes, I was glad I chose to visit the museum instead of going Shopping.

We made our way back to the city [me reluctantly] and braved the mad evening traffic, passing the magnificent Charminar edifice. This is like the landmark of Hyderabad and is 400 years old. Built by ruler Mohd Quli Qutb Shah, it stands imposingly at 180 feet tall. The four minarets soar to the height of almost 49 metres each above the ground. A small mosque is located on the roof of the edifice. All around Charminar is a bustling bazaar of pearl and jewellery shops etc [too bad we didn’t stop!].

We left the hotel at 7.30 pm for dinner at ITC Sheraton hotel. By then, I’d gotten used to having finger foods served before the main meal. I was, however, feeling uncomfortable at the sight of the poor waiters; they were of small built and (despite lacking in size) really bent over backwards in their eagerness to serve us foreigners [actually it was more of bending forward as they bowed themselves]. The thing was, I don’t think anyone [including the local Indian bigwigs] cared about or noticed them hovering in the background, trying desperately to entice the guests with their offering of food. I don’t know why but I felt it unfair that they didn’t get their due recognition for their thankless task. And yes, the scant attention given to them really made it appear a thankless job. I really felt for them. I mean, yes, they are waiters but don’t they deserve some attention and words of appreciation? I felt for them so much that I stuffed almost every vegetarian and seafood finger food shoved my way because I couldn’t stand watching them standing there, patiently trying to get our attention while balancing the heavy trays. I was quite relieved when the host announced dinner was ready, relieved that the waiters be relieved of their thankless job.

Friday, 1 September 2006. Meeting continued and ended just in time for lunch. I didn’t partake any; instead I rushed back to my room to perform prayers, packed and then checked out. Left my luggage with the concierge [should have brought the Delsey trolley bag instead as my Samsonite was already bursting at the seams, and not with Shopping merchandises but with documents and materials!]. I then met Serap and we went Shopping [her missing luggage had Finally been recovered and just as we were about to depart India for good too!]. There are a few shops in the city which stock beautiful Kashmiri products – carpets, cushion covers etc. I Finally managed to buy a marble plate [been wanting to buy one ever since I saw a documentary on India]. I then went to Hyderabad Central Shopping Mall and as I didn’t find anything to my fancy, I then walked about in the city, yes, in the hot afternoon sun and polluted environment.

Got back to the hotel at 6 pm and after consulting the hotel staff, I decided to be adventurous and venture to Abids by auto rickshaw. It was an experience alright and I almost screamed a few times when I thought our rickshaw was about to collide into another vehicle. Abids is in another part of the city and has stores selling mainly saree materials and jewellery. I spent about an hour there before returning to the hotel.

I met Serap in the lobby and she kindly offered me to use her room. I was thankful for I was desperate to wash off the dirt and dust of Hyderabad off me. After performing prayers, a quick shower and wolfing down a cup of instant noodles, we left the hotel for the airport. It was only 10 pm and our flights were both at 0115 hours the following morning but the host was anxious that we’d get caught in the traffic. We weren’t caught in the road traffic but by the human traffic at the airport! I think a quarter of the city was there sending off some distant relative [think of the troop that gather to send off Haj jemaah at Kelana Jaya] so we practically had to push our way through to enter the building.

Another Crazy check-in procedure and check on body and hand luggage was endured. I got asked if I was standing at the right check-in counter, thanks to my trademark-flying outfit again. We went through the custom immediately, there was a long queue we had to join anyway.

There were only a few shops in the waiting area. Serap and I then went into the airport lounge to rest. We’ve become quite close over the past week and saying goodbyes is never easy. Her Lufthansa flight departed in time I think while mine got delayed and we only took off an hour after the scheduled time. It was an Airbus A-300 and nowhere as posh as the Boeing I travelled in a week earlier but I was too shattered to care. As the chap behind me kept kicking my seat, yes despite the leg space [imagine what havoc he’d create in economoney class], I changed seats to the first row [talk about being kiasu!]. I was barely in dreamland when a stewardess tripped over my foot in her attempt to close the window shutters, waking me up again. Grrr…

Oh and they referred to me in saccharine sweet voices too.

Saturday, 2 September 2006. Landed at KLIA at 0850 hours local time and reached micasa less than two hours later.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

A Quickie

This will have to be a quickie. Posting I mean [Whatever are you thinking!] - am due to board my plane for the journey home anytime now and waiting to be called to board. It's scheduled to leave in less than 15 minutes and I'm still here, in the airport lounge. Frantically typing away [I've earlier typed something but didn't manage to save/publish it due to server error].

It was a frantic dash to the airport gate last Saturday, an endless day of frantically running around it seemed. The guy in front of me overheard me talking on the cell and when I told him I was going on a study trip, he asked if I was a student. Woohoo! I look young enough to be mistaken as a student. How very flattering indeed to my ego. Of course, being clad in my trademark-flying outfit – an unbuttoned shirt worn over a t-shirt, casual pants [no more jeans for me in this weather!] and Converse shoes probably didn't help any. Not exactly a typical business class occupant dress code I’m Sure but as long as I looked neat [and chic and cool, heh!], who cares.

I was fortunate enough to be travelling on Business Class, Thank You God - only now they call it the Golden Club - on the new brand spanking Boeing 777-200 with the cool seat. I was offered to move forward to row 2 as they were concerned I would be disturbed by wailing children and I gratefully took up the offer [but of course]. The sight of me dressed like a teenager occupying that posh cabin space must have got the cabin crew thinking that I must have a rich sugar daddy somewhere who sponsors my trips. And oh, what lovely space the rich travellers get to enjoy over the hoi polloi – seats that looked futuristic [they even give light massage!], ample spacious leg space, meals served over crisp laundered table placemat accompanied with similarly crisp napkin and silver/stainless steel cutleries to boot and toiletries by L’Occitane.

And I am thankful I don't suffer from aviatophobia or aviophobia and that there weren't any Snakes on that Plane or any plane that I've flown in before. Although arguably, there are snakes alright, not the slithering reptiles ones but (mammal) snakes who piss and hiss and flick their tongues at you. Euuuwww, not Sure which I prefer less. Or more. Whatever.

And I was thankful that the aircrew didn't refer to me in saccharine sweet voices as they did previously. Yup, they used to do that in Business Class.

And Thank You God for the opportunity to travel to this (exotic) country. Will be writing on that later. Oh look, it's wayyy past departure time already. Looks like I'll be further detained in this country than I expected. Oh and guess what, the security checks at the airports I travelled through this country the past week was severe. Ruthless. I got my handcream and face mist confiscated. And I'm nowhere near Europe or the USA! I still have more than enough change of my foreign currency as I didn't quite manage to shop [boohoo]. But like I said, more on that later.

Right now, I just want to board the plane and sleep. And it'll have to be a quickie one 'cause it's not a long flight home [hurrah!]. Now if only we'll depart soon 'cause this posting is getting a wee bit long for a quickie entry.