Thursday, August 13, 2015

This Is How I Love

You know what irks me to no end? Those blinking buggers who make sweeping statements like ‘If you don’t like so-and-so, then leave Malaysia and migrate’, ‘If you don’t want to pay toll, then use alternative roads’, ‘If you don’t want to pay GST, go for products which do not attract GST’, and attitudes like ‘I’m the boss and I’m always right’, ‘I’m the boss and you shalt not question me’. The one I especially hate is to leave the country if you no longer like the way it’s run. It seems we can no longer provide feedback or criticism without someone being up in arms and all defensive. We cannot dissent, we cannot voice objection, we cannot question, and pretty soon, we won’t be allowed to think. We call ourselves a democracy but we cannot have rallies, we cannot take to the streets to express ourselves – because hey everyone wants peace and harmony, right? Taking to the streets is not our way, we’re more civilised like that, we don’t want riots and violence etc. Well, there are public demonstrations in the West and I don’t think they are backwards or third world or anything. Here, we choose to look the other way, telling ourselves we’re only small fry, that our voices don’t carry any weight. We cannot speak our mind, we have to be mute, deaf and blind, we have to trust the judgement of those who are robbing the country blind. All for the sake of peace and harmony, eh.

People forget that constructive feedback and criticism are usually made because those who criticise actually care and love the country. Hello, this is not a strange concept. We always want the best for those we love and care (e.g. children): we criticise their efforts because we want our loved ones to do well (because we know they can do better and because we believe in their ability to do better); we get angry and passionate if other people condemn and criticise our loved ones because we love them and we’re protective of them; we push our children to do better, to strive harder, to push themselves further because we believe in their potential – in short, we are relentless in pushing them to achieve more. By extension, we criticise the powers that be because we believe the country can be run better, the nation’s coffers be managed more prudently, the policies be made more wisely, the investment decisions be made more transparently and with greater accountability. Because, yes, we love and care for this country and we worry that it will be run into the ground, the country gone to the dogs and that there’s nothing left for our children to be proud of. This is how we show our love to our country and while it may be different from how other people show their love but it’s still love nevertheless.

So, if you love and care for your country, you don’t turn a blind eye, you show concern about what’s happening and you take the time to find out the truth. Be informed, don’t be ignorant. Don’t just sit there comfortable in your small world. Don’t be complacent and easily content with what the others insist is progress, unity, success, freedom and development. It’s not worth it surely to compromise our freedom and rights (and not just ours but our children’s). Because when the money has dried out, when the foreign investors have all but pulled out, when the robbers have escaped to save their pathetic skin, then it’s too late. If we still can’t open our eyes to what’s happening and learn from it and make changes in the future, then we only have ourselves to blame. And it’s our fault that we get the government that we have because we did make our bed and now we have to toss around and attempt to sleep in it.


God forbid we become another Greece or the Democratic Republic of the Congo.