Wednesday, December 04, 2013

You Only Live Once

The firm had a two-day health fair early last month with participation from various health care centres and hospitals, SOCSO and health care administrator. I went to check it out and had my blood pressure, sugar and cholesterol levels checked. I also went to check my biological age (I did the same last year and my biological age then was 7 years younger than my actual age) and guess what? Despite gaining another year, my biological age is 10 years younger than my actual age. Move over, Benjamin Button! I observed a lot of people younger than me whose biological ages are more than their actual age. Why, a mate who’s 37 is biologically a pensioner. This is all sobering and I vow that I will continue to take care of myself and my health.

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At the same health fair, one of my direct reports found out that she has diabetes. She then went to a private hospital to find out more and was given some medicine supposedly to regulate her sugar level. Unfortunately, there’s some complication because her eyesight slowly deteriorated until she could hardly drive herself to the Komuter station to get the train to work. She suspects it’s the medicine but the doctor was adamant that it wasn’t. Instead, the doctor said the medicine worked as her sugar level reading had dropped from 16 to 8. So she went to the ophthalmologist but after a lengthy check, the ophthalmologist declared there’s nothing wrong with her eyesight. She’s currently on a four-day medical leave (on top of the nine days she’d already taken thus far this year). When she called me this morning, I advised her to get a second opinion. It could be the medicine is too strong for her or not compatible with her and has adverse effects on her. I also told her that this is a wake-up call and that she must take care of herself and her health henceforth. I get that no one wants to be sickly, no one likes to be sick but most of the time, I don’t see this being matched with their actions. This direct report recently told me she couldn’t stop herself from consuming something to which I asked, ‘Do you control your food or does your food control you?’ I’m sorry if that sounded blunt and direct but c’mon. Why do we continually neglect our health? Why do we continually punish ourselves? Why do we stop taking care of ourselves? What’s wrong with embracing a healthy lifestyle? We gain from it, not lose. Isn’t it better to be healthy than being ill and bed-ridden? So what’s stopping us from a healthy lifestyle? And more importantly, why don’t we want to choose a healthy lifestyle? Surely we are strong enough to rid our bodies of toxic, dangerous substances, evil sugared drinks and processed food.

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One of my schoolmates recently found that she had Stage 2-3 breast cancer. She had since then had mastectomy and underwent chemotherapy and radiotherapy. Last Saturday, she went to the doctor for a CT scan and on Sunday morning, was informed that the cancer has spread. Some of my friends went to visit her yesterday (I have long since shied away from FB and hence only found out yesterday via email) and her prospects aren’t good. A doctor friend informed us that my cancer patient friend is in a very bad condition. Her cancer is now Stage IV, i.e., no longer curable. She has widespread metastases (cancer spread)
1. Lungs - fairly extensive cancer spread involving the lung tissue itself and the lymphatics
2. She has some fluid around her heart (pericardial effusion). This can cause her breathing and exercise tolerance to deteriorate fairly badly.
3. Liver - she has multifocal liver metastases (i.e., spots)....so it’s not good. Her liver function is already impaired. She will be very weak due to this and may get jaundice. And if you have liver impairment, you can also affect your renal function (so far her renal function is OK)
4. She has extensive bony metastases (spread too) and one of the vertebrae (bone in the spine) has fractured and collapsed...hence why she’s having back pain. She is at risk of further vertebral collapse/fracture or other fractures elsewhere and this can cause her a lot of pain
5. She has mets to her lymph nodes at her lungs and in the abdomen.

It saddens me to read that and I was quite upset. How dare this evil C disease do this? I have lost 3 of my older half-siblings to the same evil C. My sister was only 29 when she passed.


I know evil C can strike whenever and whomever. But we can minimise the risk somewhat by adopting a healthy lifestyle. We all have a choice, let’s choose the right one. After all, we only live once in this world. Let’s make it a good one.